We have investigated the mass accretion rate implied by published surface abundances of Si and C in the white dwarf component of the 3.62 h period pre-cataclysmic binary and planet host candidate QS Vir (DA M2-4). Diffusion time-scales for gravitational settling imply dot{M} ~ 10^{-16} M_{odot } yr-1 for the 1999 epoch of the observations, which is three orders of magnitude lower than measured from a 2006 XMM-Newton observation. This is the first time that large accretion rate variations have been seen in a detached pre-cataclysmic variable (pre-CV). A third body in a 14 yr eccentric orbit suggested in a recent eclipse timing study is too distant to perturb the central binary sufficiently to influence accretion. A hypothetical coronal mass ejection just prior to the XMM-Newton observation might explain the higher accretion rate, but the implied size and frequency of such events appear too great. We suggest accretion is most likely modulated by a magnetic cycle on the secondary acting as a wind `accretion switch', a mechanism that can be tested by X-ray and ultraviolet monitoring. If so,
